-the complain-

many of us will only remember the bad things ppl do, a small population will try to rmb good things.. therefore complaint rate is usually higher than compliment. which i really hate ..

after working so hard, taking care of the patient, not a pat on a shoulder , saying thank you.. in return , we get a hard smack on the face , receiving a COMplain letter.

k, the patient passed away 2 months ago, we received the letter, only yesterday, there's only 2 possibilities, either they really cannot get over it, or the bill comes in only ytd, and they cannot get over the bill .. so they decided to dig into the nitty gritty things, hoping that some fees might be waived off.. i'm not saying that everybody does that.. i'm not assuming, there are really scenarios that happens like that..

in the complain letter, it was stated we nurses didn't gave them griefing support.. when so and so pass away.. btw, my friend actually offered chair, and sat thru the whole time with them, if that's not call support, what's that? Chit- chat session or wad?

usually, these kinda things become a big issue, cos family demands an explanation. and our dear SNM, will be damn angry. she would call the ppl involved and interview them..

sometimes thru these kinda events , then we will realise the ugly side of human beings, be it ur colleagues or the ppl who complain u ..

i was actually quite shocked when i heard certain stories of upper hand being 2 headed snake, sa-boing one another, trying to put the blame on other ppl.. its super hypocrit. these kind of ppl said, often, " i have to cover my ass what." what a dumb remark.

i jus hope that this issue will settle down fast, poor friend who is involved in this. is super pissed. i'm not suprise if she throw in a regsination letter within 24 hrs. that's what she said.

jus how, will ppl start to appreciate we nurses, i ponder..

Oo happy bday noi oO

happy birthday noi!!

ytd, i gave noi a shocking suprise while we were eating at new york, haha.. the waiters brought in the cake and sang happy birthday to her.. with a cake i decorated myself..

pictures are all with noi..

will update soon.. =)

have to go work le.. another 3 nights to go.. really hate it...

*i'm tired*

Imagine, after working 8 hours , labour work, in the hospital.. taking care of patients.. hoping that after work, u can meet ur beloved boyfriend. but end up, it's always, " i have to go home early, i dun think i'm meeting u today.." and end up he's with his friends, due to last min changes..

Or, "cannot go home urself meh?"

or worst still..

making me wait for another 1 hour, after my 8 hour shift.. to wait for him. at the station.. cos he had last min plans.. " shyt happens " that's wad he say..

i feel like crying, cos i dunno wad and how to tell him. and once i open my mouth, sure there'll be argument.. true enough, we ended up in heated argument.

u said, that ur friends feel that u r spending too much time with ur gal. , ur gal said tat , u have no time for her.. i know u are sandwiched. but u work mon to fri , sometimes sat with ur colleagues. i only asked u sometimes to acc me home on the way back from ur work. is that asking too much?

i hate it,

i jus wanna be quiet today,

i shoo-ed him home, it's the first time. i really dun wan to, but i have to. cos i wanna be quiet.

my mind is so exhausted after thinking so much.

i know it's a stupid argument someday when we look back....



hubby tan, is it really true that i've taken up too much time in ur life?

*thailand* + MJ

i just realised that i've a busy schedule ahead next week..

friend's bday, my medical appt, night shift.. bla bla bla.. i've to work for another 8 days before my off.. can't imagine.

i'm going to thailand with hubby tan and friends! yay! it's actually my very first time going out of the country alone with hubby tan.. only, without my parents without my sis... i'm super excited.. though it's only thailand. ahaha

i still dunno where is the place. that beach that we're going.. i'll have to loose a lot of weight before the day arrives, if not i can't fit into any of the shirts i'm having now.. i've been eating like a cow. seriously.. sometimes i hate the way i'm gorging now.

i can't wait to go shopping for the things to bring to thailand.. with hubby tan..

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ok, it's super late to post about Michael Jackson.. he's dead, alot of ppl can't get over it, i can't imagine myself doing that too.. i dunno why, when he's alive, i've never really listen to his songs..
the first time i know "Beat It" was from last yr Ms SGH D & D one of the remake of the MTV competition.. ever since he's passed on, i actually listen to his songs everynight, automatically.. not that i wanna purposely go and listen, but. i dunno.. songs like, "smile, Heal the World, Black or white, billie jean,... really nice ..

kinda miss the pageant thingy..

we all will miss him. and his wierd moves. whaha..

new book^^

i was out with noi that ytd.. we're at the mrt .. sitting opp us, was a girl reading this book "Mile Hi! club".. Noi whispered to me. "hey this book is really nice, the author is an ex flight hostess.. of certain airline". i know la.. see the way she combs her hair in the pic. i know it's SIA. obviously.


being an over obsessive air stewardess fan. i told noi, i'm gonna buy tat book. and so we ended up in bugis, and I boughT the bOOK! .. it's super nice to read.. i told hubby tan, he showed the "fu yan" face... ha! wadever~

basically, the book is about the "not so nice, behind the scenes" of being a flight stewardess...

probably after i read the book, i'll find that, maybe flying isn't my kind of job afterall.. it's so complicating and political.. That's why, i failed twice. in the interview.. ..

i didn't noe , that behind the scene of the glamour pretty job, one of their JD is actually cleaning toilets, literally, scrubbing the seats and wiping off urine.. Now, that's scary.. cos at least my job doesn't require us to mops the toilets and .. eeeEks. quite digsusting..

one of my JD requires us to clean assess though. =_=''' but not as bad la. dunno why. probably used to it.

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ytd, hubby tan came over my place for dinner after i pester him so much.. haha.. he told me, that he wanna be an actor, maybe he'll go for interview .. and he told me that MJ was his inspiration to be an actor. OMG, jaw-dropped. i couldn't stand the idea of him being an actor. he'll have to act in love scenes, where it requires him to kiss the actress, although it's jus acting but. !!!!!!!! i totally cannot accept it. CAn u ? OMg.

cos of that. we quarrel abit.

he say, he didn't stop me from going to SIA for interview, it's me who flung the interview .. *ouch*

quite true. anyway, he's not legally my husband yet, he has his own life. i can't stop him from doing the things he like. he's right.

if we're meant to be together , we will. ..



right, hubby tan?

*life*

life is full of suprises and uncertainties..

when u wan something so much, u won't get it,
jus when u think u don't want it anymore, it comes back to u ..

life is like a series of drama, so many episodes..

episodes of laughter, tears..

so many characters, who is fake? wh0 is real.. ? nobody noes...
the show jus goes on..

so many ppl we meet, it shaped our lives, making us who we are today..

i've so many things to say, it's too personal that i can't blog.

i hope it's the right decision u've made. =)

xoxo,
valleri

*dou ya gardens*

there's even a small snail settling on the plant.

my sis is very proud of her douya garden #1 , so she wan me to post her dou ya plants. in my blog, threatened if i never blog, she destroy my garden of douya #2 ...

it's quite a delayed post actually, me and my sis went to Jp that time , thinking not to spend any money, jus to hang out and eat... end up.... bought a whole load of body shop stuffs, all bcos of her.

there's a mini clearance sale of body shop going on , and being the usual me, I can't resist sale!

esp this month i havent buy anything for myself yet. .. so we splurge..

there's so many things going on now.. my schedule is so packed.!!

went to see Gynae today, the experience is super scary, but glad that everything is fine as of now.. i really hope everything is oki.. =)

i'm turning in now.. tml gotta wake up early for work! nite nite...=)